Restoring Emotional Connections Through Hawaiian Healing

By Helen Jackson


Emotional bond is a tie or a link you have with someone on whom you share a particular set of emotions and this creates a link or tie between the two of you. Every individual has this link between the members of their family, their relatives, friends, or lover. You have this kind of connection unto these people that only you two understands because you are very close with each other.

It is not only lovers who can form a bond, you can have it also with your family, relatives or friends, but know that this connection may impair. The determining cause of the destruction of this connection can be numerous. But, Hawaiian healing on Maui can revive that bond that you have had with the other person.

As the name goes, this kind of healing process originated in Hawaii. It is a practice which involves forgiveness and reconciliation. A lot of articles and information talks about this kind of process, and to help you more about it, here are some ways on how to restore your connections with the people you love.

Respond accordingly. Impulsiveness would only lead to a more serious problem in the future. Avoid this kind of approach for it would only create a bigger rift between the two of you. In case the person did something wrong unto you, do not react right away, always remember to think appropriately before doing something which you might regret in the future.

Focus on the positive attitude. This person that hurt you surely mean something special to you that is why you got really hurt about what they do. And for sure this person has the good side that is why you two formed a connection. Now, instead of seeing the bad side of the person, try to look in his positive attitude

Stop the blame. Just because you got hurt with what that person did, you are now at the losing end. Stop thinking that you are he injured party in the situation because if you constantly think that way, it would only make you feel disappointed and angry. The best that you can do is think again, and figure out what cause him to do such act.

Pray. This is the most important part in this healing process. Prayer changes everything, as they say. Instead of thinking ways on how to block him in your life, or how to get revenge, try to pray for him. Accept the flaws of each other and ask for forgiveness. Pray for him that he would change his bad ways, and pray also for yourself.

Say I love you and do it. Loving someone can be hard for you if cannot even love yourself. You must first love and embrace your entire being, your imperfections and all. Once you are able to do this, it would not be difficult for you to do it unto someone else.

The practice of healing oneself is an integral part in repairing the emotional bond that was ruined. By doing this, you would realize how important it is to accept first your inner self so that it would be easy for you to accept other people. This kind of practice would definitely help you how to deal with pain so easily and would not leave any baggage in the future.




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